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Saturday 24th August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, The Promise of a New Day, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 24th, 2013 by admin

 

The Promise of a New Day

If love does not know how to give and take without restrictions, it is not love, but a transaction.

~ Emma Goldman

 

Many People form primary relationships before they’ve had a chance to live alone, to be on their own, to test themselves out in the world. Sometimes, in fact, it’s fear of testing themselves that drives them prematurely into a relationship. So a lot of early relationships dissolve. And if the people involved in them are motivated by fear, they’re likely to form new relationships before they’ve given themselves a chance to heal or grow from the old ones.

In a healthy relationship, both partners give and take without restrictions. Love is a process, an unfolding intimacy between adults. It’s no substitute for a mortgage or a band-aid. It’s difficult to conduct this kind of relationship when we’re young and unsure. We need an enormous amount of trust to be nurturing and vulnerable. After we’ve knocked around in the world a bit, we’re more likely to have the strength to form a real love bond.

 

The leaving thought today is ~

Today I’ll remember to promise only what I can give freely J.

 

Totally loving what today’s message is. Always be kind to you and you’ll be sure to find the one who will be just as kind at that important point of ‘right timing’ aka when you are truly ready :).

 

Wishing you all a very cool bank holiday weekend.

Our love always, Kelly & Mei xXx

PS. Who’s out partying tonight??? Summer in the Square, Atherstone

~~~ See you there xXx ~~~

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Friday 23rd August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, The Promise of a New Day, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 23rd, 2013 by admin

 

The Promise of a New Day

 

Our greatest happiness does not depend on the condition of life in which chance has placed us, but is always the result of a good conscience, good health, occupation, and freedom in all just pursuits.

 ~ Thomas Jefferson

 

Opportunities abound each day of our lives for respectful, thoughtful actions towards others. It’s within our power to apply serious effort to any task securing our attention. Being concerned with our physical health and emotional well-being is also a choice. And we discover the level of happiness we attain in this life is in proportion to the considerate attention we give to others, to our personal needs, and to the activities occupying us.

 The blessings we receive in this life are measurable by these we bestow upon the lives of those with whom we’re travelling. There really are no surprises in store for us. We each must assume responsibility for our own happiness and good fortune; and there’s no time like the present for opening our minds to this reality.

 We sit at the controls today, and our perspective on the situations we experience will make them pleasant, productive, or problematic.

 

Our thought to leave with today is ~

 The choice is my own. I’ll find happiness and good will if I foster it.

 

 We hope you are all having a very fantastic day today, full of blessings and opportunities of abundant manifestations :).

 All our love

 Kelly & Mei xXx

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Thursday 22nd August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 22nd, 2013 by admin

 

The Promise of a New Day

 

 Gentleness is not a quality exclusive to women.

 ~ Helen Reddy

 

Our options for how we respond to the men and women in our lives are vast. Being critical is one option open to us. Indifference and gentleness are others. The way we treat others reveals our own state of being. When we feel at peace we generally respond peacefully to others. Conversely, when we feel worthless and full of self-doubt, we’re less likely to be sarcastic toward others. However, we can pull ourselves out of the self-imposed dungeon of despair. The method is this: In spite of personal feelings, be warm, kind, and gentle in every personal exchange with another, and your own dark mood is sure to be lifted.

 

Again we are confronted with the reality that we make our world. Our treatment of others treats ourselves simultaneously. Our friends and co-workers mirror the self we often think we’re hiding away. A conscious decision will guarantee the happiness we long for when the decision is to be gentle, loving, and caring toward the people in our lives.

 

Our leaving thought of ponder-ness today is ~

Today I’ll be as happy as I want to be :).

 

All our love, smiles and happiness

 Love Kelly & Mei xXx

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Wednesday 21st August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 22nd, 2013 by admin

 

The Promise of a New Day

Geese lower their heads when flying under a bridge, not matter how high its arches may be.

~ Julius Caesar Scaliger

 

Old fears oppress us. They can hamper our growth; we learn nothing from them. Yet many of us continue to be afraid, for reasons we have long since forgotten, or never knew. Our bodies sometimes carry the weight of these old fears; a cringing of the shoulders or a knot in the gut may be part of the legacy.

Our growth as free beings may depend on shedding these old fears. They are as real as viruses, and they make us ill in similar ways. We need to examine our actions, to be sure that we aren’t just ducking our heads every time we fly under a bridge. Am I behaving appropriately? Am I meeting this situation in this moment, or am I letting the past govern me? Am I acting or reacting?

When we discard old fear, we have a sense of liberation. Whatever wound that old fear was protecting can heal. We are ready to face life as it comes, not as we fear it might come.

 

Our leaving thought for today is ~

Healing myself empowers me to shed the fears that limit my growth.

 

When I first read this I even asked do geese really duck their heads when flying under a bridge??? Lol. Then I realised from the persons reaction it is meant metaphorically :).

 

Hope you have all had a very cool day and happy full moon night tonight

Love Kelly & Mei xXx

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Tuesday 20th August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 20th, 2013 by admin

 

The liar leads an existence of unutterable loneliness.

~ Arienne Rich

 

All human interactions are built on agreement. Language itself depends on agreement: we agree, broadly, on the meaning of friend, blue, danger, cold. We agree on times of meeting, rules of procedure, and appropriate behaviours for many situations.

To lie is to break some of those agreements. “I returned your call” is a harmless lie, we might think, but if we didn’t return the call, then we’re lying about our intentions and our actions. It would be so much simpler for us to say, “I meant to return your call.” So why don’t we?

One important motive for telling such lies is to make ourselves look good. “I returned your call”; “I don’t know how the paint got chipped”; “Someone stole my gloves”; all these are small falsehoods in which we claim that our performance was error-free – whatever slippage occurred wasn’t our fault.

Human beings aren’t error-free. We forget things; mislay our gloves, back into telephone poles. We’re human. Pretending we’re not isolates us from the rest of humanity. Not only do we break the agreement at the base of language; we set ourselves apart from each other. We pretend we are more perfect than someone else; we condemn ourselves to loneliness.

 

Our leaving thought for today is ~

Let us admit our imperfections; they are part of our humanity.

 

Totally feeling my blog today :p. It was only this morning when I said to my Timothy that I am always seeking the very ideal, highest perfection and when I am just being human I become really hard on myself. These words have brought me so much comfort and appreciation of myself that I am going to put a little extra effort of getting to know the humanness of Kelly :p Fun times are a-happening :)

 

Loving your groovy-ness always

Love Kelly & Mei xXx

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Saturday 17th August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 20th, 2013 by admin

 

The Promise of a new Day

 We only do well the things we like doing.

~ Colette

 

When you were a child, did you feel you had to do everything you were told to do? If you didn’t perform all the tasks equally well, did you feel that something was wrong with you?

When we were young, many of us were never told that we were doing as well as we could. Or if we were told, we didn’t know how to hear it. It has taken some of us years to learn that to do something well often means to do it as well as we can. And somewhere inside us, those children still groan over tasks they can’t do easily.

It helps to remember that we are not alone. Something we find difficult to do may have all sorts of repercussions for us and others. We can always ask for help. Other people are pleased when we ask them to share their skills. When we know how to console the child within, we need never fell inadequate.

 

The leaving thought today is ~

I’m working toward the day when I can truthfully say, “I like everything I do because I do everything as well as I can.” :)

 

All our love, Kelly & Mei xXx

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Friday 16th August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 20th, 2013 by admin

 

Just noticed my blog didn’t upload yesterday :(. I love it so much I just had to rewrite it for us all <3

 

The promise of a new day

Any path is only a path, and there is no affront, to oneself or to others, in dropping it if that is what your heart tells you.

 ~ Carlos Castaneda

 

Our inner guide, our conscience, desires to be heard every step of our way today. And the choice to listen is easy if we’ve developed trust in those messages from our heart. There is no absolute path we need to follow in this life, but some will be more advantageous to our destiny than others. And some paths will weave themselves more smoothly among the paths of other travellers. We are all moving toward the same destination.

 How thrilling it is to recognise that there is a message centre within that has foreknowledge of our needs today, of the direction most fitting to the growth that’s in store presently. We are not lonely, forgotten figures in this universe. We have purpose. And we can fulfil our purpose if we are acting in concert with our heart’s message. When we move softly through the day, we can be certain of hearing the words forming within.

 

Our pondering thoughts today ~

 I’ll take slow, sure steps today and know I’m on the right path.

 

 The crazy thought process I ventured down upon meditating on today’s meditation was most groovy ~ to think that we are all teeny tiny pieces of the universe condensed into our physical bodies. Crazy but amazingly beautiful don’t you think :p

 Love you, Love Kelly & Mei xXx <3

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Thursday 15th August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 15th, 2013 by admin

 

The promise of a new day Meditation :)

If politics may be broadly defined as “the way we are with each other” then anything that affects how we connect with each other is political.

~ Phyllis Jane Rose

There’s a word for someone who is democratic with strangers and despotic with intimates, and the word is hyprocrite. One of the important lessons of our time is that the personal is political. Our behaviour reveals our true beliefs and what we truly are.

“Politcs” may sound like too heavy a word for our behaviour with our families, lovers, friends, and co-workers. Yet it’s accurate. If we oppress or manipulate those who are close to us, bribing and threatening instead of asking honestly and negotiating for what we want, then it doesn’t matter what we say,or how we vote. Our weakness and lack of maturity reveal us to be unstable.

Our politics is our lives: how we connect with one another, how we use resources, even how we think about things. How we deal with the smallest details is how we really are, and others are apt to deal with us in kind. If we’re abusive or insincere, we’re going to encounter abuse and insincerity. Lets bring our behaviour into agreement with our beliefs.

Our leaving thought today is ~

Today I tune in to my political broadcast and make sure it reflects my platform.:)

I really hope you are enjoying my new form of blogging. I have recently awoken from being under the influence of codependency.

Sounds scary but it isn’t. My eyes are becoming even more open and I feel as though I am journey on a most wonderful adventure towards the depths of myself. The true Kelly, with no shame, guilt or fear of upsetting anyone.

Codependancy; Excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner.

I always think that when you hear the word codependancy, you automatically shy away from it, and to hear someone say they are involved in a codependant relationship you think it is an abusive one. Sometimes it can be, but the majority of the time it isn’t. 

So. why I am so glad I have allowed myself to admit to myself that I was a codependant person that was living a life of codependancy – because to be codependant is to constantly question yourself so as to not upset people around you, even if it means that you choose to not do or say things just in case. To spend your time helping others rather than yourself and putting other peoples needs before your own.

When I started to read more about it I realised that for me this stems right back from my early childhood. Being the other sibling I automatically put a lot of pressure and responsibility upon myself which Iwas still doing till a couple of days ago.

For that reason I don’t want to call myself an expert on this as I serious am not. But I am very interested and learning and I am constantly watching every word, thought, deed, and action within me to see the reason behind them. And it is already proving very positive. I am now smiling with no thought behind it :)

So, want to know what I am reading then ~

Codependant No More ~ Melody Beattie.

I have just started to read this so I cannot really pass on any reviews of how I am finding it.

The Language of Letting Go ~ Melody Beattie.

This is a lovely little book with daily meditations to help keep you on the course of your ‘recovery’. What I like to call our reawakening. Iam enjoying reading it each morning and I am seeing the synchronicities already.

The Promise of a New Day ~ Karen Casey & Martha Vanceburg.

Now I am really enjoying this little book. This is the one I am sharing with you all during our time of ‘Letting Go’. A very apt book of these amazing times of true inner transformation. Again as I am sharing this with you all I read each day and also allow myself a small time to ponder on what is wrote and this has to be the most magnificent one so far of seeing synchronisticity playing its part. What I read in the morning I find I become apart atleast one experience during my day in the shop that allows an experience to reflect this. Seriously cool.

Now you all know that I live my life to help and serve the people in my life and all the friends of my shop, Kelly G’z, so I started to ask myself the question, “How can I truly help people without considering to, and then continue moving forth to help myself?” The answer, you can but you are not truly happy or living in joy. Upon considering yourself you are including yourself within your perceived realitiy placing you alongside all the people you love and would love to get to know. Could this be the end of separation and the allowance of true unity???? I’m giving it a sure go ;). All happy together.

Thank you for reading and being here and I do hope you find something from this, even if its just that you’ve read to here THANK YOU :)

All our love

Kelly & Mei xXx  

 

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Wednesday 14th August 2013

Posted in 2012, Alternative, Aura Photography, Beltane, Candida Withdrawal, Celestine Prophecy, Codependancy recovery, Costa Coffee Atherstone, Crystal Skulls, Crystals for healing, Detox, Fossils, Herbal Remedies, Kelly's Apothecary, Kirlian Photography, Mayan 13 Crystal Skulls, Moldavite, Moldavite Jewellery, New Age Crystals Fossils, Raspberry Ketones, Spiritual Awareness, Uncategorized, Vitamins and Minerals on August 14th, 2013 by admin

 

The Promise of a new day Meditation.

“To find the good life you must become yourself”. ~ Dr. Bill Jackson

The more we run away for ourselves, the greater is our disenchantment with all the opportunities each day offers. When we live far from our own centre,we ensure distance from all the persons in our life. Happiness in all things eludes us when we become distant from self and others.

Finding ourselves, closing the Gabon the distance created, is a by-product of a personal inventory. We must know our wholeness before we can celebrate ourselves. With celebration comes relief, freedom, and a readiness to tackle the opportunities presented to us.

 Self-acceptance fosters self-love -> the necessary prerequisite to the discovery of a good life. It’s within reach. We must decide to move wholly toward it.

 Leaving thought to ponder –

 I can be excited about the chance to celebrate myself today. My qualities are special and deserve recognition.

Now that is a wonderful thought to take time out to contemplate :-).

All our love

Love Kelly & Mei xXx

 

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Friday 10th March Daily Zen Quote

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“To go from mortal to Buddha, you have to put an end to karma, nurture your awareness and accept what life brings.”

~ Bodhidharma ~

Now writing these words today a welcomed pleasure Cutting close to my current perception of my reality!!! Beautifully refreshing .

So yes, this morning I have made myself sit down with a hot chocolate from Costa, a very nice pr…oper hot chocolate, to write my daily Zen blog to you all as time seems to be filtering past very quickly at present!!! Which is very cool but getting caught up in the illusional feeling with having less time in the day to get done all the things I love to do .

Lots of lovely newness coming to and oozing out from Kelly G’z at present that my evenings have become full of wonderful meditations which have been very deep and intense aswell as amazing.

Last Saturday I wrote to you about something wonderful coming into the shop and I have taken photos to place on here but they kept finding homes to go to, so I had to keep taking them but I will put the photo up for you to see the last few of them.

SKULLS!!!! Not this time . Something just as amazing and I am extremely humbled by for the fact that I have been given this opportunity from the universe to bring and share with you at this very needed time for their help. What are they???

MOLDAVITE Jewellery and pieces .

I treated myself to a beautiful pendant made of Rainbow Flourite and Moldavite and I know it is me wearing this that I am becoming more my soul. So much so my first meditation wearing it I returned at super speed back to my souls origin to share about how my physical body is holding up during these periods of intense downloads of transformation for our planet and our species. I got an upgrade to my body which mainly consisted of the removal of no longer needed stuff and genetically inherited blockages which I have gratefully received.

Great appreciation to the universe for bringing us this very invaluable tool to assist us all at this very needed time of WHAT THE goings on .

We do hope and pray that you are all enjoying this time, especially enjoying the energy we were all blessed with yesterday with a powerful new moon and a southern hemisphere solar eclipse which brought forth the possibilities of all impossibilities which I am so totally excited about as my world grew infinite fold .

Always loving you all and totally respecting this journey alongside you.

All our love always

Love Kelly & Mei xXx
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